Sunday, November 7, 2010

To and fro Calais! Part 2.

3rd of November, 8:45 in the morning.

...Waiting for the local bus to take me into Maidstone town. Soon the bus arrived and took me town, £1.50 it charged me. I don’t really like travelling on early morning buses they are so noisy because of school kids. Anyway it took me 10 minutes instead of 7 as they was shool traffic rush on the roads. After I reached town I headed on my wheelchair towards the Maidstone that is he train station. It took me 5 to 7 minutes. There was an earlier train at 9:15 to Ashford so I decided to catch that one. Its better to be early than late. The informed the station management to assist me on the early train. After a anxious wait the train arrived one of the station supervisors helped me on to the train by putting a ramp between the platform and the train gap, so I could just wheel myself in to the train. Which is very convenient, but in order to receive such assistance you have to call them up earlier at 0800 7834524. When I was in the train I realized I didn’t have breakfast, my stomach was growling, thankfully I had kept my home-made sandwich and a bottle of water which I had on the train. On my way to Ashford I was too busy eating, it took me an hour and a few minutes to arrive. Now I was waiting at the Ashford International Train Station for the train to Dover. It was the next platform and many were waiting I saw a young boy reading a magazine which had naked women on the cover, I also saw a group of Chinese students, an old man and a women puffing away on cigarettes, a mom trying to discipline her children and a young couple all waiting for the train. On the train I managed to get out of my wheelchair and made myself comfortable on the train seats. ‘Thats nice’, I thought there was hardly anyone in my train compartment ‘I guess they might be sitting in the other ones’, and then I made myself comfortable and looked out of the window. The train travelled along the coast soon I could see the White Cliffs of Dover, magnificent it all was. After an hour’s train ride I was at the Dover Priory train station.

When I came out of the train station I saw a motel called Priory Hotel. I could see the cliffs they are all white due to limestone. The weather was very mild but cloudy, say 15 degrees so I had to wear my jacket. Thank God it wasn’t raining. Anyway, so right next to the station was the bus stop, there were the P&O buses that take passengers to the port. They come to the station every fifteen minutes, which was good. Fortunately I had to just wait for 5 minutes for the bus. The driver got out and pulled out the ramp, the driver was very helpful and impressed when he heard I am travelling from Maidstone on my own. The bus ticket is £2 but the bus driver let me go for free, which was a score.

‘Welcome to the Port of Dover’ it said in big bold letter at the entrance. I could feel the cool sea breeze on my face. ‘Oh gosh! My hairs gonna become frizzy’ and that what the first thing popped into my mind when I felt the cool sea breeze. ‘Uh, who bothers but o French man will wanna bump into me having messy hair!’ Relax Nadia, you are on a day-break enjoy it, I thought it. Sorry about speaking my thoughts aloud, got a bit distracted there, but seriously this what came into my head. Back to the port, yeh so in the bus at the port, I was the only passenger on the bus (I think people come earlier) so the driver kept chatting with me kept asking me questions like ‘have you been in a wheelchair all your life?’ ‘Aren’t you scared going on ure own?’ and I am use to all these question and I politely answered all his questions. I feel so proud in saying ‘Whats there scared to be about, I enjoy being adventurous!’ It took just 7 minutes for the bus to reach the port, the driver once again pulled out the ramp and I wheeled myself out. ‘Nifty lil wheelchair you’ve there!’ I agreed with him and exchanged good byes.








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Saturday, November 6, 2010

To and fro Calais! Part 1.


1st of November 2010 it was, winters had already begun.

...Early morning and a cup of tea, after checking my emails and doodling on Facebook, Twitter and job checking and business networking on Linkdin and Viadeo, then checking my diary on my phone (By phone I mean no hi-fi iPhones or Blackberry, although I wish I had one, its my simple Nokia which I also use as my camera and its handsome and sleek and I love it.) which said that I was absolutely free this week, with a sigh I thought ‘Oh know... what will I do’. But then all of a sudden a light bulb was flickering in my head. I believe it was trying to switch on, an idea was coming in my head, so I thought hard. And there it was a brilliant idea, why not head to Calais for a day or a few hours rather, which was all good, its like a short excursion. Which was excellent as I was on my own, Eureka!

I didn’t really bother to ask anyone as I knew everyone is going to be busy and no one is as crazy or passionate about travelling as I am and this is what keeps me motivated. One of my friend calls me a ‘Globe Trotter’ it sounds like an avatar from one of the games of X-Box. As my laptop was in front of me, I started Googling for ‘cheap ferry tickets for Calais’ literally. Well after the results turned up the one that caught my eye was ‘ travel to Calais for £1 by P&O Feries’, I had to check this one out and I did. It opened up the P&O Ferry website page about the £1 offer. It said that in order to avail this deal one has to be a foot travel passenger and the ferry journey has to depart any time after 9:00 am and will arrive back to England any time after 5:00 pm. This offer was not valid for weekends including Fridays. Well it all sounded too good to be true, hence I called them up. By the way the P&O number is 08716 64 20 20 and is not tool-free, so after hearing a not very short record about toll-charges, advertising there website and ‘please press 1 if you have to make a booking’, I pressed ‘1’ then, immediately a women received the phone. A very polite voice said ‘P&O Ferries, bookings...you are speaking to Sopie, how may I help you?’ she sounded so graceful, wanted to hear that voice again. In that minutes daze I forgot to speak. ‘HELLO, is anyone there?’ with a jolt I spoke ‘Yeh...hi, I need to ask you about the pound one offer, is it still available?’ back to her normal calm voice she answered ‘yes, and when would you like to go?’ she asked ‘On Wednesday, the 3rd of November... and I am a wheelchair user!’ I said, it just came out of my mouth and I sounded so confident, honestly speaking I hadn’t a clue what I was saying, ‘Okay then, that’s no problem.’ She said. I was baffled by my own spontaneous decision, I am never so quick. Anyways I just went along with it as I had already checked my diary-phone, I had no engagements for this week.

The kind lady, Sophie, then explained me the whole process, including my train timings, getting to and from the Dover port, my ferry timing and so on. But before booking it all in she advised me checkout the train timings as I was coming all the way from Maidstone. I took her advice; she gave me her direct line, reserved my booking, gave me a reference number and asked me to call her back. Well and that what I did nest, I first checked the train timings at http://www.southeasternrailway.co.uk, the fare was coming to £25 return. Then I called the South Eastern Travel Assistance at 0800 7834524 (this is a toll-free number) these guys are really helpful when assistance needed on-off trains, for wheelchair users, buggies, push-chairs, prams, etc. the person whom I spoke to had also made a trip to Calais by ferry, which was helpful. She recommended me appropriate train timings for my departure and return journeys and booked assistance on the required train timings. My train journey was as follows: train departing from Maidstone East at 9:39 am, it will bring me to Ashford at 10:08 am where I’ll have to get the next train to Dover Priory Station at 10:30 am. Rather confusing, I do hope nothing goes wrong tomorrow. Anyways now I’ll tell you the return journey: my train departs from Dover Priory Station at 6:44 pm, it gets me to Ashford at 7:11 pm and then I have to get the next train to Maidstone at 7:19 pm which gets me to Maidstone at 7:47 pm. Gosh that is like a tornado with a huge swish!

After jotting all this information down on my MS Word (I use my laptop instead of writing I find it more com convenient everyone knows that but I never get a I-Pad on my birthday!). I then called on Sopie’s direct line at P&O Ferries, ‘P&O ferries, Good Morning, Rich specking how I may help you?’ this time a man received the phone. He was equally polite and sounded young and handsome. ‘Can you please give me your reference number’ he asked ‘sure’ I said. After making sure the timings of the ferry which were 12:30 am departure from Dover Port and 6:25 pm return from Calais and after co-ordinating the train timings, the issue of going from the train station to the port in Dover was raised as I was on a wheelchair, Gosh! Why God why am I on a wheelchair. But this did not discourage me one bit (well I’m being dishonest here. I was feeling let down a bi but I went even further, I had to do this right till the end. Well so I was given a taxi firm number to contact and book a wheelchair accessible taxi for Wednesday. Then I called them up, they were very nice but refused to book me a taxi from before, they told me that they were many black hackneys outside the station. Any of them will take you to the port and will charge £15. After hearing all this I again called up the direct number at P&O Ferries hoping for Rich to receive it. But this time a guy named Stephen received the phone, and sounded very polite as well. I gave him my reference number and he immediately found my reservation on the system. After asking my train timings he suggested that as my train will arrive Dover Priory at 11:01, I should give an hour’s extra before boarding the ferry as I am on a wheelchair. Which I agreed to as I have never used ferries before, therefore my ferry was now departing at 1:00 pm from the Port of Dover. Now the issue can up of me getting into Calais town from Calais port, but this time the man took my mobile number and said he’ll call me back with information on this. Which was good cause now I was getting a bit annoyed by using the tool charge number of P&O ferries. After 10 minutes I received a call by Stephan at P&O ferries, he told me not to worry our crew at the port in Calais will put you on a wheelchair accessible taxi that’ll take you into town, the fare is approximately going to be 15 to 20 Euros. I agreed (had to agree, no choice anyway if I had to do the journey) and now to complete my £1 booking I was asked by the man for my card details. ‘If you pay by credit card there is an extra £2 charge, but if you pay by debit cards they’ll be no payment fees.’ He said, ‘debit please’ I said. After I gave my card details and the booking was complete I was given a reference number ‘P60308362’ and told to arrive the port approximately an hour earlier. We exchanged ‘thank yous’ and ‘good byes’ Gosh that was a good nerve wrecking experience, but I am still going anyways!





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Friday, August 27, 2010

Saturday at Ramsgate. Nice!




















































It was Friday night, after breaking our fast at approximately 8:09 pm and finishing with prayers, my Mom thought aloud ‘let’s go to the beach tomorrow’. Hearing that my eyes lit up and after a long day of fasting instead of feeling tired I felt full of energy. ‘Yes! Great, lets go for it then’, I said, on saying this I also checked the weather on bbc.co.uk, ‘the weather is gonna be fairly humid and warm’, I said, ‘but its gonna be also partly cloudy’. ‘Well’, my Mom said, ‘we’ll go to Ramsgate tomorrow, in England the weather is never good. We’ll try to leave at 11:00 am in the morning’. I was excited as I love visiting places even for a day. Although I have been to Ramsgate many a times before but this time I was a bit more excited as I shall be posting it on my blog.

The next day I woke up at 8:00 am, showered, wore a bright yellow t-shirt and jeans (as I am never able to go into the water since I have been using a wheel chair, therefore I never bother to wear beach clothes) but on this trip every things going to change. Anyway so here I am all dressed ready to leave, as we were all fasting due to Ramadan we didn’t have to pack any picnic edible items. By 11:00 pm we were all in the car, seat belts all bucked up and the Satellite Navigator (Tom Tom) all set to guide us through the web of motor ways all the way to Ramsgate. According to the navigator it was an hour’s drive but before setting on our journey my Mom had to pay a visit to the bank in town, which was totally cool. Technically we left for Ramsgate from Maidstone at 12 o’clock.

Personally I dislike driving on motorway, they are so long it’s like an endless stream of repetitive boredom. Well, here we were driving on the motorway as I call it the ‘endless stream of boredom’. Thankfully we had a lot to talk about, my Mom had come back from her vacation in Pakistan, and so we were talking about that a lot. Finally in no time we were there, as my Mom got my wheel chair from the boot and I was preparing to disembark the car my mobile rang, so I received it. It was a friend whom I had to apologize as I was unable to speak to as I was at the beach with family. As we were fasting and couldn’t eat so my Mom told us that she’ll stay in the car a bit and sleep as the long drive made her tired. Which was kind of good as I could take loads of pictures and venture into the town centre, which was awesome!

There I was on my way to the seaside town of Ramsgate, it is old and beautiful. As said by Terrie Petree (It’s that kind of place) ‘it’s like a dream of kissing old lovers and being dressed up like the Queen. It’s that kind of place. It is a centuries old town of homes, shops, restaurants and small hotels facing the Ramsgate harbour. From the town towards the sea the postcard view of the harbour and the channel beyond, it looks out at a stretch of the English coast where Charles Dickens, Samuel Taylor Coleridge, and Vincent Van Gogh, lived and worked. The history of Ramsgate and the harbour is enough to make you wish that the place was haunted. I can tell you from experience that it isn’t. I spent one week at the Ramsgate Harbour as an unofficial writer in residence. I didn’t see any ghosts during my stay, but I saw enough exotic people, full moons, passenger laden ferries, monstrous clouds, ancient passageways, and glasses of fresh squeezed orange juice to fuel my imagination for months to come and fresh seafood’. Well that is how Ramsgate the seaside city truly is, beautiful and mysterious.

I crossed the road from the harbour, on the other side they are cafes, motels, pubs, restaurants, bed and breakfasts all in a endless row. Almost all of them have the word ‘harbour’, ‘sea’ or ‘fish’ in their title names, like ‘The Royal Harbour Hotel’, ‘The Sea Front Restaurant’, ‘The Fresh Fish Market’ and so on. As I went deep into the town centre it all reminded me of a very old English market place, where all the shops were squeezed side by side along with narrow pathways and alleys running up and down towards the residential area. They were fruit and vegetable vendors all over the place shouting away the prices of their items to be sold. There was a post-office, many jewellery and charity shops, a butcher, a barber, few banks and hardly any clothes shop (kind of boring, so they had all the basic amenities). On yeh! There was also an ice-cream van standing in the middle of town, they also had a Mc Donalds, KFC and a Boots and Super Drug (the label/logo of Boots and a few other shops was still the old one, the one which I remember when I was a kid. Now that was weird nostalgic and it felt so ancient). Hence the town is basically the centre of Ramsgate in a very typical old fashioned way where the shops and businesses are in the centre (of course!, and in the middle and on the streets they are the open market stalls) and the surrounding area and the out skirts there are the residents of the town.

On a Saturday, that is when I went, I went right up to the corner of King and High Streets and the shop stalls that line the way. Most of the goods are fairly priced: brass light fixtures, t-shirts and fresh fruit, but there is also an Indian leather goods shop where they sell very attractive slippers. I made sure to visit each and every shop and stall (even the chemist and post-office) and also managed to buy some grapes from one of the open market stalls. I got a whole big pack of seedless grapes for just a pound, what a bargain I must say, and they were sweet as well. The stuff sold at the open market was interesting and I spent a lot of my time investigating them. Apart from fruit and veg stalls there was a stall where one could find all the equipment for fishing, from fishing rods, nets to live baits and hooks. Another one was selling all these colourful cheap plastic toys made in China; they were also selling plastic kitchen utensils. There was also a small boot fair sale selling used books and clothes in order to raise money for a animal charity. There were also many cafes, pubs and restaurants there and many of them had fresh fish as their speciality on their menu.

Anyways, after wondering around the town for approximately three hours I headed back towards the seaside. My Mom called to let me know that she is awake now and walking towards the sea. On my way back to the seaside I also saw many people from different countries and nationalities. I found it was very tricky to distinguish the locals from the non-locals that are the Europeans and American. I found out that many are European youths, Portuguese immigrants, British families on holiday, and day travellers like me and others who come via ferries from Oostende (located in Belgium) and Calais in France. From the sea front I also enjoyed the view of massive and luxurious ferries come in and out through the harbour, I also saw the private sail yachts, clippers and catamaran (a sailing boat or engine-powered boat that has two identical hulls fixed together by a rigid framework) that come from all over the UK. It made me wonder that among all those tourists, travellers, and sailors there must be someone who once was in Calais or some other French coastal city and looked out at Ramsgate. It’s true that France is visible from the seaside only and when the weather is clear, but unfortunately when I was there it was very cloudy (this can be clearly seen in the pictures).

Ramsgate is a port city, and therefore a portal into the heart and history of England. Once the tide goes down, one can walk along the white-rocked beach to Broadstairs and visit Bleak House, the home where Charles Dickens lived and worked. (Although drearily named, the house and the walk are bright and entertaining it is all wheelchair accessible so one can even wheel themselves easily even most of the beach is all ramped, so no worries there). If one is eager to shop or explore the place more, they have boats and trains that will take people on several pleasurable day trips. Leaving the Ramsgate station, one can be in London in about an hour and a half. The train ride itself is a nice, easy journey and the scenery changes from beachscapes and rows of tiny ocean-facing cottages to villages boasting tall cathedrals and antique bookstores to the big, metallic and impressive face of industrial London. Or, ferry across the channel and in an hour you can be in Calais and in four hours you can be in Oostende. Although they are surprisingly closely located cities, but entirely different. As someone said that ‘if I were drugged, blindfolded, kidnapped, and then abandoned in the middle of one of these towns, I would know that I am in a foreign country just by looking at the houses and building?’ Both are unique, both are decidedly non-British, and both are refreshingly not alike. At the Ramsgate beach the sea changes its colour at least five times a day and sometimes it is more than five different colours at once. Stripes and patches of water go from teal to slate and from silver to midnight blue. Seagulls are bothersome birds, but when watched them soar white-winged against the blue and white sky and over the multi-coloured sea it sure does make one’s mind change.

At around 4 pm we all decided to sit at the cafe on the beach, where they were selling hats, coffee, drinks, chips and ice-cream. They were a few cute life guards standing next to the rubber rings and life saving equipment. Next to all this there were these two peculiar looking wheel chairs, they had huge rubber tyres like for blown up balloons. I went over to one of the cute life guards and asked about the chairs. I came to know that they were free of charge and specially designed, for wheel chair users, to be driven on the sand and taken into the water. It all sounded awesome and I had to try them. So I asked if I could try them, and yes, they agreed. one of the guys picked me up and placed me on the wheel chair with big wheel, it was like a hovercraft. ‘Am I heavy,’ I asked, ‘No, gosh you are so tiny and light,’ the cute life guard said, shyly I giggled. Although I do know that I am light but it’s nice to hear it from a potential cute guy. But in a instant all my dreams were tarnished as his girl friend came and gave him a kiss on his lips.

Anyway here I was, my shoes and socks off trousers folded, all ready to go into the cool waters (correction please it was freezing cold). Do checkout my pictures it will tell the height of excitement I was in, could not stop giggling. Gently the chair like a hovercraft with me sitting in it was pushed down the beach; it was a bumpy and adventurous trip to the sea. Finally I had reached and my feet were dipping into the sea, the water was so cold but I enjoyed every bit of it. ‘It was AWESOME!’ Anyways, it was getting late now so we decided to head back home to Maidstone. Soon we all got loaded in the car, assembled our navigator (Tom Tom) in the car for directions and on the motorway back home.

I advise all, that a day out at the beaches in Kent is a very good accessible escape from the daily life routine. Please do try it, and do give me your side of the story, anxiously waiting for your question, suggestions, comments, anything.































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